Are you socializing?

"Socialization" is an important aspect in the growth and development of every person. Some people acuse homeschool children of lacking this very necessary developmental characteristic, but do they really lack socialization?

Have you ever had a conversation like this?

"Oh, look at your children! They are so cute! Where do they go to school?"
"Thank you, we homeschool them."
"Oooohhhh. (Pause) Do they have friends? How do they socialize if they are always at home?"
Big Sigh....

It's the last comment that always gets me. Even though the public opinion of homeschooling has changed for the better over the past decade, many people still cannot get over the "socialization" issue. Sadly, I have had several people tell me horror stories about crying lonely children who did worksheets all day. Granted, there may be an unfortunate child out there who lives in that. Yet, I can honestly say our homeschool is nothing of the sort. Our day is full of life and color, and our homeschool curriculum is vibrant, fun, and sometimes even silly. Everyday holds excitement!

They do have many friends - good ones! Friends that come from homeschool group, summer camp,and church (not to mention their 5 siblings .) Friends that help them grow and learn socially. Friends that they have chosen and feel comfortable with - the best kind of friends.

But, putting aside the "friend" concern, homeschool children typically are more mature, confident, and strong in what they think and stand for. I know several colleges that are so impressed by homeschooled students, that they seek out homeschoolers to come to their facilities. Also, I have noticed that most homeschool children I have met are courteous, respectful (at least in my presence), and independant. They have learned many life lessons at the feet of their parents.

Yet, my children are missing social interaction with children that mistreat, bully, and mock them. They aren't exposed to drugs, alcohol, and foul language. They don't have to be afraid to go to the bathroom during the school day.

Looking at the facts, I guess I would have to agree... Homeschooled children do lack "socialization"... or at least all of the negative aspects of socialization! I have to admit that I am glad we are not completely "socialized!" What do you think? Leave a comment and let us know!